The phases of life for boys- with girls that is

        When a boy is born in a north Indian family,the grand parents go hysteric regarding a boy being born in their family, i don't know why?? From all my 22 yrs and at least 17 yrs in conscious i don't see a reason for being extremely proud of boy being born in a family, because ultimately intentionally or unintentionally females get more attention than males.        So i went over the incidences and mindsets i had possessed or most of the boys have possessed over their years regarding girls.   Phase-I- (0-4 yrs)      This is the phase of innocence...

Bull who got bullied- II

       This blog of mine won't be a short story like the previous one....ohh by the way if some of you have missed my previous post, it was a short story on ragging, and it was kinda prelude to this blog. Since you have already taken the efforts to visit my blog and then please read the part-I to able to find a  link with this blog( i know its torture, but 5 mins of your precious time and a nice comment will make my day....uhhh i guess i should be in marketing).       Before you start abusing me for veering off the topic, i ll snap back to the topic, no, its not ragging, its a...

Bull who got bullied

  "Turn around" the 1st boy said in a cold voice   "No please" he said    "Dont force us to force you, co-operate please" the 2nd boy said in a sarcastically polite way     He turned around and closed his eyes tightly waiting with heavy heart for lashes he was expecting...     "Now strip down" the 1st boy said     "no........aaaahhhhh" he screamed aloud as he was hit by belt by the second boy     "I told you not to force us to use force" the second boy said with firm devil intent in his voice     "please i beg to you"...

The boy who lived....

 A young boy climbed up the aisle to the stage in the morning assembly on the 1st day of our secondary session,  he cleared his throat before starting to recite a Hindi poem in chaste and fluent way.        "Mom who is this guy??" i asked my mom who was also a teacher in the same school i studied  in        "Son,he is tanmay, he will be your classmate from this year, he is manju teacher's son"        " He is so nice on stage" i said         "isnt he,you know he used to stammer at a young age??"       ...

Things not to do with a girl

Now if the title seems suggestive of something else, please forgive me, but this blog is going to be all about how not to behave with a girl when you are in love. And if at all you started reading this blog thinking that the blog will be like the suggestive title then you have the choice of not continuing.         Girls- They are very much human like men, but then men would like to believe they are not. A girls mind is one of the toughest nut to crack and even great psychologists have failed in doing so. No i have not even come close to even seeing a girls mind but all i will share with you all is...

A wall that fell, and a wall that should fall

Unified India got divided in 1947,USSR broke into 15 countries, vietnam got divided into north and south, so did korea but 20 years ago a wall fell, which was the only incident which went against the tide. It was the fall of berlin wall. And this fall could happen only because the people on both sides wanted it to fall. They had the will to stay united and undivided by just the politics of economics(capitalism and socialism namely). The Wall was only physical because emotionally they were still united, physical walls are easy...

Rain rain go away.......

A friend whom i was meeting after 6 yrs called me up early in the morning..... "hey, its kinda gloomy, it may rain heavy today" she said "yeah, so....thats so normal with mumbai" i said "but you may get stuck, i live near-by only" "You delhites will always fear rain, you dont see them any way" "Ok then you are coming is it??"she said "Mark a man's word on stone " i replied It had rained only in the morning for past few days, and then by afternoon the skies cleared out. I thought to myself that it will be no different today. I ventured out in the rain armed with an umbrella and mobile charged to full( in case of emergency!!!!!)....

Maximum City, Minimum Hearts

Mumbai- The land of opportunities, the city with people having "the spirit". How often do we hear all this on news channels when it rains and people are stuck or when there's a blast. But how true it is?? Is this city really a Maximum city??           The dahi kachori was spicy and finger licking good. We were chattering with each other as usual when i heard a mild sound of crash  "Thud"  " What was that??" sunand asked me  "Lets finish off with the kachori then we will see" i said  After...

A night of horror, chance and stink

 It was after four years in the history of our college and branch that an Industrial visit was arranged for. Courtesy the president of the students association of the branch( ohhh thats me!!!!!!!!). It was a four day trip to udaipur and mount abu.         We checked into one of the best budget class resorts in udaipur, the oriental palace resort which had it all, swimming pool, garden and rooms wer actually row houses. Being a north Indian i have relatives spread all over north India. Before going to udaipur...

Speed thrills, but kills or at least screws

      Now, since its my blog so i have taken the liberty to add a few words to the already famous and now very common line. It was 6-30 in the evening and i was having my cup of bournvita( yes it is still my tan aur man ki shakti) when my phone rang, pissed, i got up and picked up the phone........ "Dude i am screwed", rajat said "its no time for rhyme buddy, i am very pissed", i said "Its no rhyme man, i have met with an accident,i have fractured both my hands" "yeah right, then how is it then you are making me a  call with those very same hands huh??" "uhhh , nurse is holding the phone for me" "really??...

Placements-Life before and after

       For an engineer, campus placement is a big thing, it ensures that you lay your hands on a good job well in advance, and for one, you wont have to be in a hindi film like situation where the elder brother of the hero walks around in scorching sun with his certificates in hand. The packages in the bonanza are, good impression on the teacher, automatically you can see a change in their otherwise stern attitude, and that gives a possible hope for better internal marks. The other thing which comes along with campus placement is that, juniors start to respect you, and when a cute looking girl who you...

Free too loose can fly, holding too tight can die

 Recently an insurance company started running a very interesting ad. The ad features a cool urbane girl sitting in a compartment waiting for the train to depart, to her amusement a couple arrive to see of their son and start to pamper him irrespective of the people sitting around, treating him like a kid much to their son's dismay, because he is not left with a chance to impress the girl.      Well unfortunately this kind of behavior which was shown in  the ad was not at all exaggerated and was  to an extent true. The situation in many households may not be like this, but for those people who...

Recommendation, money and patience

Now,There are people who have had a brush with the Mumbai university may actually have an idea of its functionality and then are those who dont have any idea may be because they dont belong to mumbai or never had the luck to visit the shrine for students(all puns intended). My first encounter with the MU was quite memorable. My first sem engineering exams got over and i had promised my father that i wont get anything less than 65%. If at all i got anything less than that i would change my name, after the results got declared i realized...

Love- liability,threat and strength

Uhhhh......Many of you who have read my previous blogs would tend to think, is this guy love starved psycho who goes on and on giving lessons on love??? For those who think so, i would say i do not disagree completely. To those who do not think so, thank you for being the way you are. To some people the title itself may confuse them, "kya likhta hai yaar", just 5 mins of pure reading and they will realize what the title stands for. In this blog i ll discuss a story of a girl who fell in love and got trapped in the vicious circle of emotions and drama. Renuka(of course thats not...

Online love ,any one?

Considering the new trend which the Indians are witnessing in particular, i decided to address this issue as well( No i am no politician but i can at least give my views huh?). Off late we are witnessing a surge in the number of people getting hooked by meeting online. The issue came to limelight when an Indian girl fled her home and ran away to pakistan to find her true love, a love she had seen only on the virtual medium!!!!!. The aftermaths of this virtual love story were not too good, the girls husband died and then harassment by the in-laws, but i wont be dwelling into that much. A big shot in the...

College life and the love life......

There has been a lot of debate and discussion on love life should start and how it should start, what is the correct age. But according to some there is no age for love. In hindi movies the lead actress would be head over heals over the boy right from their childhood flashback. That may be possible but i would like to generalize the right age to the college life. My love life also started in college. No i never got into a relationship, but i fell in love on 1st week of my college itself. The girl a simple one, no make up, salwar kameez clad , armed with books to compensate for the expensive fees of the college...